different between rapey vs grapey

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rape +? -y

rapey (comparative more rapey or rapier, superlative most rapey or rapiest)

(informal) Suggestive of, or characterised by, rape.
This song is pretty rapey if you think about the lyrics.
- 2011, Tyler DeAngelo, Brad Emmett, Learn Just Enough to Get Laid (page 157)
  If this all sounds a bit “rapey,” that's only because there were different standards of morality back in the days of Greek mythology.

grape +? -y

grapey (comparative grapier, superlative grapiest)

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