different between antipathy vs grudge

English

Etymology

From Ancient Greek ?????????? (antipátheia), noun of state from ????????? (antipath?s, “opposed in feeling”), from ???? (antí, “against”) + root of ????? (páthos, “feeling”).

Pronunciation

• IPA^(key): /æn?t?p??i/
• Hyphenation: an?tip?athy

Noun

antipathy (countable and uncountable, plural antipathies)

1. A feeling of dislike (normally towards someone, less often towards something); repugnance or distaste.
   • 4 November 2016, Spencer Ackerman writing in The Guardian, 'The FBI is Trumpland': anti-Clinton atmosphere spurred leaking, sources say

     Deep antipathy to Hillary Clinton exists within the FBI, multiple bureau sources have told the Guardian, spurring a rapid series of leaks damaging to her campaign just days before the election.

   • June 1917, The National Geographic Magazine Volume 31, No. 6, Our State Flowers/The Sagebrush

     The sagebrush belongs to the composite family, and its immediate cousins are widely distributed. They are known as the artemisias, and there are a host of them, many with important uses in the economy of civilization. Artemisia absinthium is popularly known as wormwood; from it comes the bitter, aromatic liquor known as eau or crême d'absinthe. Many of its cousins grow in Asia and Europe, including the mugwort, used by the Germans as a seasoning in cookery; southernwood, used by the British to drive away moths from linen and woolens and to force newly swarmed bees, which have a peculiar antipathy for it, into the hive
2. Natural contrariety or incompatibility

Usage notes

• Prepositions: "antipathy" is followed by "to", "against", or "between"; also sometimes by "for".

Synonyms

• (dislike): : hatred, aversion, dislike, disgust, distaste, enmity, ill will, repugnance, contrariety, opposition

Antonyms

• sympathy

Related terms

• antipathetic
• antipathetical
• antipathize

Translations

Further reading

• antipathy in Webster’s Revised Unabridged Dictionary, G. & C. Merriam, 1913.
• antipathy in The Century Dictionary, New York, N.Y.: The Century Co., 1911.
• antipathy at OneLook Dictionary Search

English

Etymology

A variant of grutch (mid 15th-century, younger than begrudge), from Middle English grucchen (“to murmur, complain, feel envy, begrudge”), from Old French grouchier, groucier (“to murmur, grumble”), of Germanic origin, akin to Middle High German grogezen (“to howl, wail”), German grocken (“to croak”). Compare also Old Norse krytja (“to murmur”), Old High German grunzen (“to grunt”).

Pronunciation

• IPA^(key): /???d?/
• Rhymes: -?d?

Noun

grudge (plural grudges)

1. (countable) Deep-seated and/or long-term animosity or ill will about something or someone, especially due to a past misdeed or mistreatment.
   • 1607, Barnabe Barnes, THE DIVILS CHARTER: A TRAGÆDIE Conteining the Life and Death of Pope Alexander the ?ixt, ACTVS. 5, SCÆ. 1:

     Bag. And if I do not my good Lord damme me for it

     I haue an old grudge at him cole black curre,

     He ?hall haue two ?teele bullets ?trongly charg’d

   • 2001, H. Rider Haggard, All Adventure: Child of Storm/a Tale of Three Lions, Essential Library (xLibris), page 274:

     It is towards Saduko that he bears a grudge, for you know, my father, one should never pull a drowning man out of the stream — which is what Saduko did, for had it not been for his treachery, Cetewayo would have sunk beneath the water of Death — especially if it is only to spite a woman who hates him.

Derived terms

• hold a grudge
• have a grudge
• bear a grudge

Related terms

• rancor
• spite
• grudge fuck
• grudge match
• resentment

Translations

Verb

grudge (third-person singular simple present grudges, present participle grudging, simple past and past participle grudged)

1. To be unwilling to give or allow (someone something). [from 16th c.]
   • 1608, Henrie Gosson, The Woefull and Lamentable wast and spoile done by a suddaine Fire in S. Edmonds-bury in Suffolke, on Munday the tenth of Aprill. 1608., reprinted by F. Pawsey, Old Butter Market, Ipswich, 1845, page 6:

     Wee shall finde our whole life so necessarily ioyned with sorrow, that we ought rather delight (and take pleasure) in Gods louing chastisements, and admonitions, then any way murmure and grudge at our crosses, or tribulations :

   • 1841, Edmund Burke, The Annual Register, Rivingtons, page 430:

     If we of the central land were to grudge you what is beneficial, and not to compassionate your wants, then wherewithal could you foreigners manage to exist?

   • 1869, Thomas Wentworth Higginson, Army Life in a Black Regiment, Fields, Osgood, & Co., p. 62 [1]:

     Of course, his interest in the war and in the regiment was unbounded; he did not take to drill with especial readiness, but he was insatiable of it, and grudged every moment of relaxation.

   • 1953, Saul Bellow, The Adventures of Augie March, Viking Press, 1953, chapter 3:

     I've never seen such people for borrowing and lending; there was dough changing hands in all directions, and nobody grudged anyone.

2. (obsolete) To grumble, complain; to be dissatisfied. [15th-18th c.]
   • 1526, William Tyndale, trans. Bible, Luke XV:

     And the pharises, and scribes grudged sainge: He receaveth to his company synners [...].

3. (obsolete) To hold or harbour with malicious disposition or purpose; to cherish enviously.
4. (obsolete) To feel compunction or grief.

   (Can we find and add a quotation of Bishop Fisher to this entry?)

Derived terms

• begrudge
• grudgement
• grudgery
• grudgingly
• misgrudge

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References

Anagrams

• Dugger, Gudger, gurged, rugged