different between peevish vs unkind

English

Alternative forms

• pevish, pievish (both obsolete)

Etymology

From Middle English pevische, pevisse, pevysse, peivesshe, also peyuesshe, peeuish, of obscure origin. Perhaps from Middle English pew, pue (“a plaintive cry, the cry of a bird”), equivalent to pue +? -ish. Cognate with Scots pevis, pevess, pevych, pevach (“peevish”), Scots pew, peu (“to cry in a plaintive manner”). See pue.

An alternative etymology derives Middle English peyvesshe (“capricious, silly”), as a possible corruption of Latin perversus (“perverted”). The meaning “fretful” develops in the 16th century.

A third suggestion links the word to classical Latin expavidus (“startled, shy”) (< ex- + pavidus) via an unrecorded variant with -ai- of Middle French espave (“stray [of animals]; foreign [of persons]; lost property, flotsam”) (first attested 1283 in Old French; Modern French épave). The semantic connection is thought to be the behaviour of stray animals. Compare -ish suffix.

Pronunciation

• (UK) IPA^(key): /?pi?v??/
• (US) IPA^(key): /?piv??/

Adjective

peevish (comparative more peevish, superlative most peevish)

1. Characterized by or exhibiting petty bad temper, bad-tempered, moody, cross. [from 1520]
   • c. 1599, William Shakespeare, King Henry V, act III, scene 7:

     What a wretched and peevish fellow is this king of England, to mope with his fat-brained followers so far out of his knowledge!

   • 1600, William Shakespeare, Merchant of Venice, act I, scene 1:

     Why should a man whose blood is warme within, / Sit like his grandsire, cut in Alabaster? / […] And creep into the Iaundies / By beeing peeuish?

2. Constantly complaining, whining; childishly fretful.
   • 1813, Jane Austen, Pride and Prejudice, ch. 41:

     [T]he luckless Kitty continued in the parlour repining at her fate in terms as unreasonable as her accent was peevish.

3. Easily annoyed, especially by things that are not important; irritable, querulous.
   • 1917, P. G. Wodehouse, “The Mixer” in The Man With Two Left Feet and Other Stories:

     At first he was quite peevish. “What's the idea,” he said, “coming and spoiling a man's beauty-sleep? Get out.”

   • 1975, Saul Bellow, Humboldt's Gift [Avon ed., 1976, p. 471]:

     They used to tell one about a kid asking his grumpy old man when they were walking to the park, "What's the name of this flower, Papa?" And the old guy is peevish and he yells, "How should I know? Am I in the milinery business?"

4. (obsolete, Northern England) Clever, expert. [18th c.]
   • 1710, Thomas Ruddiman in Gawin Douglas, Virgil's Æneis, translated into Scottish verse (new edition), gloss (at cited word):

     The word peevish among the vulgar of Scotland is used for niggardly, covetous; in the North of England, for witty, subtile.

5. (obsolete, Canada, Northern England) Sharp, piercing, bitter (of the wind); windy, blustery (of the weather).
   • 1744, John Armstrong, The art of preserving health: A poem, book I, v. 285 ff.:

     […] the ridge […] / […] defends you from the blust'ring north, / And bleak affliction of the peevish east.

   • 1927, Lucy Maud Montgomery, Emily's Quest, p. 174:

     Something has happened to sour February's temper. Such a peevish month.

6. (chiefly obsolete) Perverse, refractory; headstrong, obstinate; capricious, skittish; (also) coy. [from c. 1400]
   • 1539, Coverdale Bible (Cranmer Preface):

     Not onely foolyshe frowarde and obstinate but also peuysshe, peruerse and indurate.

   • 1616, William Shakespeare, Two Gentlemen of Verona, act V, scene 2:

     Why, this it is, to be a peeuish Girle, / That flies her fortune when it followes her.

7. (obsolete) Silly, senseless, foolish. [16th–17th c.]
   • 1633, John Ford, 'Tis pitty shee's a whore, ch. 5, sig. I2^v:

     This is your peeuish chattering weake old man.

8. (obsolete) Beside oneself; out of one's senses; mad. [16th c.]
   • 1523, John Skelton, A goodly garlande or chapelet of laurell, p. 266:

     Some tremblid, some girnid, some gaspid, some gasid, As people halfe peuysshe, or men that were masyd.

9. (obsolete) Spiteful, malignant, mischievous, harmful. [16th c.]
   • 1569, Richard Grafton, A chronicle at large and meere history of the affayres of Englande and kinges of the same (first edition), ch. 2, p. 176:

     In derision of the king, they made certaine peeuishe and mocking rymes which I passe ouer.

   • 1601, John Marston et al., Iacke Drums entertainment, ch. II, sig. D2^v:

     This crosse, this peeuish hap, / Strikes dead my spirits like a thunderclap.

10. (obsolete) Hateful, distasteful, horrid. [16th c.]
    • 1563, Thomas Becon, The displaying of the Popish masse (new edition, 1637), p. 299:

      The Lords Supper and your peevish, popish private masse doe agree together..as the common proverbe is, like harpe and harrow, or like the hare and the hound.

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Adverb

peevish (not comparable)

1. (obsolete) Peevishly.
   • 1602, William Shakespeare, Richard III, act IV, scene 4:

     Be not peeuish fond in great designes. [1597 ‘pieuish, fond’; 1598 ‘peeuish, fond’; Malone conjectured ‘peevish-fond’, the reading adopted in many modern editions; the Arden edition prefers ‘peevish found’.].

English

Etymology

From un- +? kind.

Pronunciation

• IPA^(key): /?n?ka?nd/
• Rhymes: -a?nd

Adjective

unkind (comparative unkinder or more unkind, superlative unkindest or most unkind)

1. Lacking kindness, sympathy, benevolence, gratitude, or similar; cruel, harsh or unjust; ungrateful. [From mid-14thC.]
   • c. 1599, William Shakespeare, Julius Caesar, Act III, Scene 2,^[1]

     Judge, O you gods, how dearly Caesar loved him!

     This was the most unkindest cut of all;

     For when the noble Caesar saw him stab,

     Ingratitude, more strong than traitors’ arms,

     Quite vanquish’d him: then burst his mighty heart;

   • 1720, Alexander Pope (translator), The Iliad of Homer, London: W. Bowyer and Bernard Lintott, Volume 6, Book 24, lines 968-971, p. 189,^[2]

     Yet was it ne’er my Fate, from thee to find

     A Deed ungentle, or a Word unkind:

     When others curst the Auth’ress of their Woe,

     Thy Pity check’d my Sorrows in their Flow:

   • 1814, Jane Austen, Mansfield Park, Chapter 2,^[3]

     Nobody meant to be unkind, but nobody put themselves out of their way to secure her comfort.

   • 1950 July 3, Politicians Without Politics, Life, page 16,

     Despite the bursitis, Dewey got in a good round of golf, though his cautious game inspired a reporter to make one of the week?s unkindest remarks: “He plays golf like he plays politics — straight down the middle, and short.”

   • 1974, Laurence William Wylie, Village in the Vaucluse, 3rd Edition, page 175,

     We had to learn that to refuse such gifts, which represented serious sacrifice, was more unkind than to accept them.

   • 2000, Edward W. Said, On Lost Causes, in Reflections on Exile and Other Essays, page 540,

     In the strictness with which he holds this view he belongs in the company of the novelists I have cited, except that he is unkinder and less charitable than they are.

2. (obsolete) Not kind; contrary to nature or type; unnatural. [From 13thC.]
   • 1582, Stephen Batman (translator), Batman vppon Bartholome His Booke De Proprietatibus Rerum, London, Book 7, Chapter 33,^[4]

     […] A Feauer is an vnkinde heate, that commeth out of the heart, and passeth into all the members of the bodye, and grieueth the working of the bodye.

   • 1617, John Davies, Wits Bedlam, London, Epigram 116,^[5]

     Crowes will not feed their yong til 9. daies old,

     Because their vnkind colour makes them doubt

     Them to be theirs;

3. (obsolete) Having no race or kindred; childless.
   • 1593, William Shakespeare, Venus and Adonis,^[6]

     O, had thy mother borne so hard a mind,

     She had not brought forth thee, but died unkind.

Derived terms

• unkindest cut

Related terms

• unkindly
• unkindness

Anagrams

• Dunkin, nudnik