different between cottaging vs cottager

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cottaging (uncountable)

(Britain, slang) Sexual activity in a public lavatory, especially homosexual activity between men.
- 1993 October 6, Anna Kisselgoff, "Upstart and Formal Styles in Montreal", in The New York Times, page C14:
  "MSM," a term that is reportedly English social-work jargon for "men seeking sex with men," explores the reasons why men, including heterosexuals, cruise in English lavatories, which are, believe it or not, called "cottages." The text is made up of actual interviews with those who go "cottaging."
A seasonal activity involving a prolonged stay at one or more cottages; similar to visiting, but typically for a longer duration and at a seasonal home that one owns or rents.
- 2004, C. Michael Hall, Dieter K. Muller, Tourism, Mobility and Second Homes (page 69)
  This comparison between the commercial cottager and the private cottager begins to give us an insight into differences between the private cottager and the commercial cottager, a difference that has implications for the relation of cottaging to city life.

From cottage +? -er; compare cotter.

cottager (plural cottagers)

A person who has the tenure of a cottage, usually also the occupant.
- 1855, Elizabeth Gaskell, North and South
  I don't like shoppy people. I think we are far better off, knowing only cottagers and labourers, and people without pretence.
(Britain, slang) One who engages in sex in public lavatories; a practitioner of cottaging.

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