different between cajole vs deceive

English

Etymology

Borrowed from French cajoler, probably a blend of Middle French cageoler (“chatter like a jay”) (from gajole, dialectal diminutive of geai (“jaybird”)) + Old French gaioler (“entice into a cage”), which is from Medieval Latin gabiola, from Late Latin caveola, diminutive of Latin cavea (“cage, coop, enclosure, stall”).

Pronunciation

• (UK) IPA^(key): /k??d???l/
• (US) enPR: k?-j?l?, IPA^(key): /k??d?o?l/
• Rhymes: -??l
• Hyphenation: ca?jole

Verb

cajole (third-person singular simple present cajoles, present participle cajoling, simple past and past participle cajoled)

1. (transitive and intransitive) To persuade someone to do something which they are reluctant to do, especially by flattery or promises; to coax.

   Synonyms: butter up, coax, entice, inveigle, sweet-talk, wheedle

   • 1722, Daniel Defoe, Moll Flanders, ch. 12:

     Then he cajoled with his brother, and persuaded him what service he had done him.

   • 1820, Sir Walter Scott, The Abbot, ch. 27:

     If you are cajoled by the cunning arguments of a trumpeter of heresy, or the praises of a puritanic old woman, is not that womanish?

   • 1894, Horatio Alger, Only An Irish Boy, ch. 19:

     He had tried bullying, and without success. He would try cajoling and temptation.

   • 1898, Gilbert Parker, The Battle Of The Strong, ch. 37:

     [W]ith eloquent arts he had cajoled a young girl into a secret marriage.

   • 1917, Upton Sinclair, King Coal, ch. 8:

     Schulman, general manager of the "G. F. C.," had been sending out messengers to hunt for him, and finally had got him in his office, arguing and pleading, cajoling and denouncing him by turns.

   • 2010 August 4, Michael Scherer, "NonSTARTer? Obama's Troubled Nuclear Treaty," Time:

     For weeks, the White House, the Pentagon and Senate Democrats have been working overtime to cajole, convince and placate Republicans.

Derived terms

• cajoler

Translations

French

Verb

cajole

1. first-person singular present indicative of cajoler
2. third-person singular present indicative of cajoler
3. first-person singular present subjunctive of cajoler
4. third-person singular present subjunctive of cajoler
5. second-person singular imperative of cajoler

English

Alternative forms

• deceave (obsolete)

Etymology

From Middle English deceyven, desayven, dissayven, from Old French decever, decevoir, from Latin d?cipi? (“to deceive; beguile; entrap”), from d?- (“from”) + capi? (“to seize”); see captive. Compare conceive, perceive, receive. Displaced native Old English besw?can.

Pronunciation

• IPA^(key): /d??si?v/
• Hyphenation: de?ceive
• Rhymes: -i?v

Verb

deceive (third-person singular simple present deceives, present participle deceiving, simple past and past participle deceived)

1. (transitive) To trick or mislead.

Synonyms

• See also Thesaurus:deceive

Related terms

• deception
• deceptive
• deceit

Translations

Further reading

• deceive in Webster’s Revised Unabridged Dictionary, G. & C. Merriam, 1913.
• deceive in The Century Dictionary, New York, N.Y.: The Century Co., 1911.