Jane Nelsen quotes:

When we really understand the fact of separate realities, we will stop spending so much time and energy trying to change the reality of others

Where did we ever get the crazy idea that in order to make children do better, first we have to make them feel worse?

Children do better when they feel better.

What we do is never as important as how we do it.

Where did we ever get the crazy idea that in order to make children do better, first we have to make them feel worse? Think of the last time you felt humiliated or treated unfairly. Did you feel like cooperating or doing better?