Ingrid Weir quotes:

If you aren't happy with your life, change things until you are... if you can't change something, change your attitude about it.

Your past doesn't define you. Only your present and your future. If your life is screwed up, stop making excuses. What are you going to do about it today?

I used to dream of a week-long beach vacation with white sand under my toes... right now, I'd settle for 48 hours at a Motel 6 with some Lysol and a UV lamp.

Never play the Devil's Advocate. Your words could be the difference between success and failure in someone else.

There is no fate... no predestination... no luck. Don't use that as an excuse to not live the life you want. Work for it. You make your future - no one else.

Insecurity isn't an attractive quality in a man.

The only complicated things worth fighting for will change the world in some way and/or make you lots of money, and a complicated relationship will only keep you from doing either.

I've never understood why people get mad at others for not being interested in them romantically - especially when there are so many reasons to be mad at people that are within their control.

I was thinking about picking up kayaking, but I didn't want anyone to think I had herpes.

As a kid, I dreamed of a knight in shining armor coming to rescue me. Now, I just dream of equal pay for equal work.

Neglecting your health is the equivalent to spitting in the face of everyone fighting to stay alive and of those who have lost their fight.

I think we, sometimes, try to fill a void with so many other things that we make the wound deeper & prevent it from ever healing properly.

Why would they have book covers if we aren't supposed to judge the book by them? It makes no sense.

If at first you don't succeed, sure, try again... but if you keep not succeeding, you should probably concentrate on something (or someone) else worthwhile & quit wasting your time.

I'll say it again, for every moment you're with the wrong person, you are robbing yourself and the right person of the opportunity to find real happiness.

Some people change. Most people don't. Accepting this makes it much harder for them to disappoint you.

Once you acknowledge that reality is not your enemy, it will no longer be your enemy.

If it isn't going to matter to you in 5 years, quit stressing about it. (Also, quit b*tching about it. It might matter when you're all alone in 5 yrs because you're annoying now.)

Today is the first day of the rest of your life, and if you screw that up, you can start again tomorrow.

It may be easier to get forgiveness than permission, but trust is harder to get back than both.

Teach by example and treat yourself the way you would want your children to treat themselves.

What if reincarnation really happens, and Jesus were reincarnated, & you were a total d*ck to him? It could happen. You should probably treat everyone like they were Jesus reincarnated.

Who you love is an illustration of you... but whomever loves you back is you... in HD.

You may just miss an awesome ride if you only look at happiness as a destination.

The more obstacles you encounter, the harder you must fight to meet your destiny. Never let adversity win. Never give up on yourself and the good you can bring to the world.

If you're overwhelmed, lost, or like you life is out of control, do whatever you can that matters to someone else or ever did to you... it might not help, but it certainly won't hurt.

How hollow must your life be for you to waste it hating and oppressing others, whose lives are of no consequence to your own?

It's nice to feel needed... it's better to feel wanted.

Looking for a gem, we are sometimes dumb enough to try to hold on to a lump of coal, convinced that it will turn into a diamond in our lifetime... but all it does it get sh*t all over you until you burn it and use the energy for something else.

Since all men are created equal, I have to thank God I was born a woman.