Christian Rudder quotes:

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  • You take a picture of yourself in some exceptional situation - skydiving or whatever. People always post those photos because it works - you're saying something about yourself that begs a conversation and that's what the users are there for.

  • Use correct grammar and punctuation. Do not use net speak, like WOT, W-O-T or U. Those messages get a lot lower reply rate.

  • A great piece of advice for online dating is to stand out from the crowd. So greetings like "hello" and "hi" are very common. They do less well than things that are a little bit quirky or a little bit weird, like "howdy" or "holla." The rarer your salutation, the better it does, in general.

  • There will be more words written on Twitter in the next two years than contained in all books ever printed.

  • We noticed recently that people didn't like it when Facebook 'experimented' with their news feed. Even the FTC is getting involved. But guess what, everybody: if you use the Internet, you're the subject of hundreds of experiments at any given time, on every site. That's how websites work.

  • I know that shorter messages are better in terms of reply rate. The optimal length is something like 50 characters. Characters, not words.

  • Dudes have been making up stuff about themselves probably since there have been dudes.

  • Text is, in some ways, on the way out, unfortunately. There are dating sites now that are just pictures.

  • To be universally liked is to be relatively ignored.

  • Women are much more discriminating. I think both types of people are equally interested in having an attractive partner. But women essentially give the thumbs up to only half as many guys as guys giving the thumbs up to women.

  • Kind of paradoxically, men are very open minded or very even handed with their votes of women.

  • Because the way love works in general, you don't need everybody to like you somewhat - you need one person to like you a lot.

  • Going to a site with more users seems obviously better to me, but at the same time, having a bland, middle of the road profile with bland, middle of the road pictures seems like a bad strategy to me.

  • People tend to prefer their own race online in terms of the volume of messages.

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